No one here said it was easy?
I, among others pretty do this on the daily as a real life(tm) job and understand its can be a royal pain in the breasticales. Its more a curiousity question how you're hitting such high server usage and bandwidth (although id maybe get your ISP to display as MB and not Mb) when a certain other 'place in a galaxy far far away' is able to run 'double' the pop with a fracture of the cost.